Notes from Charles Stanley:
“Brokenness is God’s way of dealing with the a self-life independent of Him and His best for you. He will continue to remove everything in your life that is necessary for complete surrender. Chastisement—dealing with sin in your life so that you can be a good servant for Him, useful to the Kingdom. He deals with those habits that go against complete surrender—opposite of SELF.”
God wants to work in our life so we can work in others lives. He wants to bring your Will in line with His Will so He can use you for the Kingdom and He will use you to the degree that you allow yourself to be broken.
God loves you too much to allow you to live just for SELF