(Powerful Important Message!)
(The worst kind of relationship is when one party is sweet, funny, interesting, kind one minute and the next minute is talking ugly, interrogating, questioning over and over, digging deeper and deeper until the other party is confused or worn down, and begins to concede to whatever they’re being accused of.
(The name calling, yelling, threats, accusing rhetoric, isolation makes this INSECURE party feel in CONTROL, in command of their life. But this repetition fuels the fire that drives their distrust, anger, and the desire to maintain control. The real reason for this kind of behavior is FEAR of losing the person being attacked and controlled.
(This is not a loving relationship! This is manipulation, control, and brainwashing to protect their insecurity. Our loving God does not work this way. Through the Holy Spirit, we are convicted of sin. As soon as we ask forgiveness, WE ARE FORGIVEN and IT IS FORGOTTEN! Our Father’s LOVE replaces guilt with His PEACE.)
The real reason for this kind of behavior is FEAR of losing the person being attacked and controlled.